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On the Last Day of School, My Teacher Gave to Me…

kid stuggle It’s almost time to load up the sleigh – Christmas is just around the corner! But before students from elementary school through college can begin to deck the halls and get ready for Santa, they have to finish what they’re doing at school. And for the vast majority of them that involves a whole lot of studying and taking tests.

Whatever they’re called – 9 weeks exams, semester tests, finals – nobody calls them fun. And most everybody would agree (including the teachers who have to administer and grade them all) that the only good thing about them is the feeling you get when you’re through with the last one and school is out until after New Year’s!

(Note: The teachers I know are doing an amazing job with the tools they have at their disposal and under all the requirements placed on them by school boards and the state and federal government. This post is not about teachers – it’s about the system we’ve required them to work under.)

Tests are how our education system measures what students learn. Some people (many parents and educators included) believe that what tests measure best is how good we are at taking tests. Their perspective: Teachers tell us something, and a few weeks later they ask us to recite it back to them on a test. If we’re good at that, after 12 years we can go to more school and take more tests. We might or might not be ready to get a job and earn a living when we finally graduate – but we’re bound to be at least pretty good at school!

There’s a lot of debate going on around the country about our education system and whether we’re giving our kids what they need to be happy and successful in the years to come. People generally agree there’s a problem, and that we need to do a better job of educating our kids, but they don’t all agree on the answer.

To many, the answer is more money for education. To others, the answer is more parental control and more school choice. Best-selling author and speaker, Seth Godin (who credits much of his success to growing up as a camper and counselor at summer camp), has his own ideas about What’s High School For?

If you read his thoughts, you’ll notice that he believes learning should be a lifelong pursuit. Most people would probably agree. But are our schools instilling “An insatiable desire (and the ability) to learn more. Forever.”?

In school, many children (and college students) are motivated almost completely by grades. It might not be the grade itself that matters to the student - it might be the approval of parents, or the consequences incurred for making lower grades than someone else expected, but, usually, it all comes back to the grade.

In fact, if you think about it, you rarely hear the question, “What did you learn in that class?” Almost always it’s, “What did you make in that class?”

At camp, though, learning isn’t a job that has to be done. After a while, children begin to understand that even though they can earn awards and recognition for accomplishing something new, that’s not why they’re doing it. They’re no longer learning things for a grade – there’s much more to it than that.

Usually sooner rather than later, campers start wanting to learn – and they try new things simply for the joy of the experience and because of the realization that the more they put into something, the more they’ll get out of it. They’ll talk about how much fun they had at camp, and the fact they learned a lot in the process is almost lost on them – until they stop and think about the things they could do after they got home from camp that they couldn’t do before they left.

In a nutshell, in the vast majority of cases, learning things at camp is fun! And after we learn one thing, we want to build on it and learn even more. Not for a grade, but because we like the feeling of satisfaction we get when we work hard and we’re able to do something we’d never been able to do before. That satisfied feeling of accomplishment leaves us with “the desire to learn more” – because we want to feel that way again.  Sadly enough, that’s not always the case at school.

This YouTube Video with some clips from The Office helps show what can happen when we try to motivate others simply by offering external rewards (such as grades, goodies, or cash) for desired behavior.

Sure, many of the things we do at camp are probably a lot more fun than many of the things we do at school. But that doesn’t mean they’re easy, and it doesn’t mean we don’t have to work hard and continue to keep trying after we’ve failed, and then failed again.  Plus, if we don’t learn how to ride a horse, or ride a wakeboard, or hit the target, then those things are pretty much no fun at all – and some can even be more than just a little bit scary.

We learn a lot of things at camp, but learning to love learning might be one of the most important of them all.

Thanks, Janet and Toni!

As we move toward a new year and start to work on lining up our staff for next summer, we realize that we’ll be missing the familiar faces of those counselors who have graduated out and are moving on to other things. It happens every year, and it’s part of camp.

But this year is a little different – two of our long-time directors, Janet Jackson and Toni Ford, have realized that nobody (except maybe Bob Gene :)  ) can stay at camp forever, and they have both decided it’s time they spend their summers enjoying a few of the things that life outside of camp has brought their way.

Janet, Toni and Gilligan

Janet Jackson, Gilligan, Toni Ford

Toni has retired from education and her job as a school guidance counselor in Shelby County and has taken a full-time job on the staff of Church of the Highlands in Birmingham. She’s excited about her new role in the church, and we know she’ll make a difference there just as she has here.

Janet is still as busy as ever with her FlowerBuds shop and her wedding planning work, but this summer she’ll be planning a wedding a little closer to home – her older son, Trey, is getting married in June, and Janet will be busy working on the most special wedding she’s ever done!

We’re thinking it might not be too long now before Janet’s back here on Check-In Day with her grandchildren!

Janet and Toni have each given much of their lives to kids and camp (if I told you how many summers they spent here, you’d never believe they were just 29 years old :)  ) We know summer camp is good for kids, and Janet and Toni have been good for summer camp – especially for Camp Mac.

We wish them both all the best on the new paths they’ve chosen, and we’re sure those paths will cross ours again in the years to come!

Giving Outside the Box

Open Christmas GiftCame across this article yesterday – about giving camp for Christmas.  It’s not a new idea, parents and grandparents and aunts and uncles have given all or part of a summer camp experience to the children in their lives for decades. We even have a Christmas Gift Card  to put under the tree or in a stocking .

On Christmas morning, when we unwrap our presents and open up the boxes, we see  toys, or clothes, or jewelry, or maybe a giant flat-screen HD 3-D TV, or the iTouch, iPad, iPhone, iPod or the next iHavetohaveit electronic necessity that we never knew existed a year ago. And when we compare all of that to a flat little gift card for a summer at camp that could easily get lost in all the wrapping paper… well, the card looks about as impressive or important as Charlie Brown’s Christmas tree.

The most exciting moment in the life of most presents is when they’re first opened and they peer out of the box to shouts and screams of joy and excitement (if they’re lucky and they’re not socks or ties or fruit cakes :) Sure, it’s fun to use the iWhatever the first time and see what it can do and add new apps or games or movies. But, inevitably, the newness fades and it gets taken for granted and ultimately replaced by a brighter, shinier, newer iNextthing in another box on another day.

But camp for Christmas is a different story. The excitement might start when the box is opened, and then get forgotten about as the other, bigger boxes take the limelight that day. But as time goes by, Christmas morning memories begin to fade and the excitement about camp begins to build a little more each day and each week – because summer is getting closer!

Finally, months after the wrapping paper and boxes are thrown out and the tree is gone and the decorations are stored, the excitement builds to a peak as you sit in the car and drive up the winding road to camp – wondering if it’s around this curve or the next one!

And the excitement doesn’t end when you arrive – it’s just reaching a new level! Every day at camp there’s something new to do,  some new challenge to face, some new skill to master, somebody new to meet, and something new to learn about somebody else or about ourselves.

Even though it seems like the fun at camp will go on forever, the term does come to an end. Before we’re ready. And it’s time to pack up and go home. There are tears and sadness, and even though we’re glad to see Mom and Dad and our friends from home, we want to be able to stay at camp, too. So we relive the excitement and we tell the stories and we look at the pictures and it’s almost as much fun as it was the first time!

For many of us, there’s next summer – and we can do it all again! For some of us, though, it’s time to move on and camp can only be a memory.

But what a memory! The laughter, the fun, the friends – and most importantly, the life lessons we learned about how to be independent and self-reliant. How to live and work with others. How to make a friend and how to be a friend. How to fall down, get back up, dust ourselves off and try again. (See Kids and Courage) And how to be there to help your friend get back up when he or she is the one who has fallen down.

But don’t take my word for it, ask somebody who grew up at camp if it made a difference in who they are today. See if they agree with what we’ve observed over 65 years of watching young people grow up: Camp is the gift that lasts a lifetime.

You’ve probably forgotten all about the flat little gift card that started this story – and that’s the point.  The gift was never in the box.

Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, or Happy Holidays! Whatever you celebrate, may you and your family have a safe, healthy and happy holiday season.

And remember, the best gifts are outside the box.

Love for God, Love of Country

How many places are left in our country where one can openly demonstrate his/her love for God and love of country? Each morning at camp, we start off the day raising the flag and reciting the Pledge of Allegiance. Now this a routine that is quite common in our country. Schools across America participate in this time-honored tradition every single day.

Each evening, we close our day by walking together down to vespers. Vespers offers campers an opportunity to reflect on the day and hear an inspiring message offered by a staff member or another camper.

It’s encouraging to hear stories and testimonies from campers and staff on how God has used Camp Mac to grow them physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Now of course, our speakers don’t use those terms, but growth is visibly evident when you hear their stories. The message ends with a short Bible verse and a prayer. Then campers leave the same way they came–in silent reflection.

The friendships made, the new skills learned, and the fun that is experienced are what attract kids to Camp Mac. Camp offers children what they want on the front end!

More importantly though, camp offers children what they need. The traditional values, the golden rule for living, and the love for God and love of country are the values that allow campers to grow and become responsible citizens who contribute to our American way of life. I am thankful that the values that have made our country the greatest nation in the world are emphasized here at camp each and every day!

May God bless the U.S.A.

Marla Coleman is a friend of mine whose family runs a very well-respected summer camp operation in New York.

I subscribe to Marla’s blog in part because it’s about kids and summer camps – but primarily because she’s an excellent writer and I enjoy reading what she has to say.

Her most recent entry (link below) is quite timely – and I would not begin to pretend that I could say it  nearly as well myself.

Hope you enjoy it!

Homesick or Kidsick: The Catch-22 of Online Camp Photos

 

“Your Summer Family”

You might have noticed that we tend to close our letters and emails with the words, “Your Summer Family”. We think it sounds good, and it’s how we feel about the children and counselors we’ve been fortunate enough to share our home with over the past six decades. But there’s more to it than that.

As I watched the entire camp gather around the Campfire last night to take turns participating in skits and games, it struck me how, in just a little over a week, a group of people who had never even heard of each other two weeks ago had come together and formed a camp family.

It’s probably a lot like your own family – some of us are short, some are tall. Some of us need to gain weight, some of us could probably stand to lose a few pounds :) . Some of us like to talk, others are more quiet.

We all have our problems and challenges – and we all have to learn to accept each other as we are, because none of us is exactly how we might like to be – and few of us are exactly how others might like us to be :) . But here at camp, a bit disconnected from the rest of the world, we live together, play together, learn together, laugh together – and sometimes we cry together.

Camp truly is a great place, but camp isn’t a perfect world – no more than home is. Yet that’s what makes it such a valuable part of a child’s life – children learn to be persistent when they don’t get up on skis the first time they try. They learn to cope with challenges and setbacks when they lose a game of tetherball or a league game - or sometimes get their feelings hurt by a careless comment.

Children learn to be resilient and bounce back from adversity rather than be defeated by it. They learn to get back up when they fall  - they learn that failure isn’t falling down, you really only fail when you don’t get back up. And, most importantly, they learn they can do these things on their own without Mom and Dad right there by their sides to “fix” it all.

Camp gives children these opportunities in a fun, loving environment that simply cannot be duplicated at home. As Bob Gene wrote in our first brochure years ago, “camp is  a child’s world, away from parents”. And because of that camp offers opportunities for growth and self-sufficiency that children simply don’t have anywhere else.

Last night, campers and counselors alike laughed at each other and they laughed at themselves. They performed, they played games, they stood in the front and they sat in the back. They’ll never all be together there again (or all together anywhere after tomorrow), but they came to Campfire together and they left Campfire together – and a little bit closer. With a common memory they’ll carry with them the rest of their lives.

We’ve always known it was important for children to have the opportunity to go to camp to learn independence and gain self-confidence away from Mom and Dad. And we’ve always understood the importance of a “camp family” to help support and encourage the children parents entrust to  our care. But when you spend a lot of time around kids, you discover you never stop learning new ways to see the same things you’ve been seeing for years. A few years ago, we had a young boy camper here whose mother had passed away just a few months before camp started. When he got home, his Dad asked him what he thought about being away from home and off at camp so soon after losing his mother. The boy replied, “Dad, it was really okay. At camp, nobody has a mom.”

But here at camp, everybody has a family. Some kids come to camp for the first time not knowing anyone here on Check-In Day, and in just a few hours, they start to become part of our Camp Mac Family. Over time, their families become part of our family as well.

So, the next time you see the words, “Your Summer Family”, at the end of a letter or an email, you might remember that it’s more than just a nice-sounding way to close a message. It’s who we are.

Kids and Courage

“Courage” is a word you don’t hear used very often when people are talking about children in middle class America today.

It’s not that we don’t hear about courage – almost every day the news media tell us about the courage our troops show overseas, the courage shown by our firefighters or law enforcement officers, or the courage shown by an individual somewhere in the world who steps up in a dangerous or threatening situation. Or sometimes in situations that are neither one. In fact, it sometimes seems that the words “hero” and “courageous” are tossed about so freely by reporters and commentators that it makes the people they’re used to describe seem a bit uncomfortable. (ABC News video: What Does It Take to Be a Hero?)

However, in the safety-conscious, tightly-controlled, regulated and gated world that many parents work to create, children are shuttled in air-conditioned comfort and security from one carefully supervised activity to the next throughout the days and weeks that will ultimately make up their childhoods. These children rarely, if ever, find any need for courage when constantly wrapped up in a protective cocoon. But courage is what gives us the ability to stand up for what we believe, do the right thing because it’s the right thing to do, be a true friend, and stand by and protect those who need our protection.

We teach a lot of things at camp – swimming, riflery, archery, horseback riding, skiing – even cleaning, sweeping and bed-making :) But there are other things we work to teach our campers that perhaps aren’t quite as readily apparent – among them are patience, respect, persistence, kindness – and courage.

Courage is key at camp. In fact, the first principle in the Camp Mac Code is “Live Each Day with Courage”. Our Boys’ Head Counselor, Bill Garner, did his first Vespers on Courage last night. But like so many things at camp, courage isn’t just something we talk about – it’s something we use every day.

It can take a lot of courage for a young camper to slide down a 165 ft. long water slide into a lake. Some campers are scared to ride the Banana Boat at Skiing, others are nervous about riding the mechanical bull in the middle of a big air mattress – a lot of them are scared to ride (or even lead) a horse. But, as Bill told them, “It’s okay to be scared. It’s not okay to let being scared stop you from living life, learning new things – and loving the challenges life brings your way every day.”

Sir Winston Churchill once observed, “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” In order to learn that lesson, children have to experience both success and failure – and they have to uncover the courage they might not even realize they have inside them so they can continue to move  past both the successes and the failures we all experience in life.

Psychologists tell us that the “self-esteem movement” has created a generation of self-absorbed young people who truly believe they’re entitled to whatever they want to have whether they’ve worked to earn it or not. (GenerationMe.org)

But self-confidence isn’t the same as self-esteem. When somebody tells you how great you are so often that you finally really believe it, you have developed high self-esteem. (“Congratulations! That’s great! Way to go! You’re the best!” “Yeah, I know I’m great. I must be – they all keep telling me I am. I don’t even have to try.”) But when you do something that you truly didn’t think you could do, you’ve developed self-confidence. And you’re better prepared to tackle life’s next challenge.

Since our unique  Morning Program schedule allows children to participate in our major activities every other day for the whole time they’re at camp, in just our first two mornings at Horseback, every camper in camp came over to the Stables. As we went through these first two days, with the boys Wednesday and the girls today, I watched over 200 campers approach their horses with excitement, nervousness, concern – or even a little fear – and walk away with a big grin and a little swagger after riding a few laps around the ring!

Our Horseback Crew (and especially our horses!) obviously played a big part in that, but ultimately, each camper was alone on top of that horse, and the cowgirls and cowboys who left the barn had every right to walk a little taller on the way out the gate than they might have coming in.

Those young campers didn’t read about courage in a book, hear about it in a story or watch it in a movie – they learned about the courage they already had within themselves when they actually did something they really didn’t know for sure they’d be able to do.

John Wayne once said, “Courage is being scared to death – and saddling up anyway. ”  Here at camp, we saddle up every day.

It’s like Christmas…

Every Spring, as Summer gets closer, I run into people who ask, “Are y’all ready for camp?”  I always tell them that in the 62 years we’ve been here, I don’t think we’ve ever actually been ready for camp, but we always go ahead and open up anyway :)

It’s like Christmas, nobody ever really gets everything done that they’d like to get done before the big day, but Santa doesn’t call ahead and ask if you’re ready – he just shows up when the calendar says it’s time. And we’ve never had a camper call ahead to ask if we were ready either – they just show up here on Check-In Day!

We’d never run a Tuesday morning Check-In before, but with the short summer vacation schoolkids have these days, and with Memorial Day being the last Monday in May, we decided to give families the opportunity to enjoy the kickoff summer weekend together before they loaded up for camp! The day seemed to go pretty well, from what we could see and what we heard from our parents.

We work hard to make sure our staff understands how critical it is that parents leave here feeling good about the people and the place they’re leaving their children for a few days or a few weeks. If you’d like to share your comments or suggestions on Check-In Day with us, please feel free to do so.

And Check-In Day is a lot like Christmas Day when it gets here – the excitement and wonder on a child’s face on Christmas morning is something a parent never forgets – when you see that same excitement and wonder on the faces of a couple of hundred children as they enter (or re-enter) the magical world of summer camp, you realize why you do what you do.

And you also realize that, even in today’s world of overscheduled children and “helicopter” parents who hover over their kids, there are still parents who understand the value of giving children the opportunity to leave the nest and strengthen their wings – and who show their love for their kids not by hanging on to them, but by letting go of them, and putting a child’s needs ahead of a parent’s desires.

Summer has started. Camp is here. Life is good.

Another Summer “Among the Pines”

This will be my 15th summer “Among the Pines.” I always look forward to a change of venue. As a teacher, I love the opportunities I have to empower young people. However, schools are limited in their capacity to impact the “whole child!” That’s where camps come in! At camp, we get an opportunity to reach out to young people and help them develop physically, emotionally, intellectually, socially, and spiritually. Is there another place that can actually touch on all those facets of a child’s development better than a summer camp? If there is, I haven’t experienced it!

I always look forward to seeing the excitement of campers who attend for the first time! Additionally, I cherish those moments when I get to see familiar faces of returning campers! Those campers who return each year always come back because of how camp made them feel! There are many moments in life I enjoy, but nothing compares to joy I feel when I see how a summer at camp can impact a child for a lifetime! That’s priceless!